I'm what you would call an introvert. I like my peace and quiet, I like my space, I like being alone sometimes. I don't like being busy, and I don't feel the need to socialize a lot. For all you extroverts, you'd probably call me a hermit.
But that's okay. I am just fine being me. (That's what my blog is called, after all.) But of course, I still need friends, and I still need to go out every once in a while.
So let me tell you about Saturday. I LOVE Saturdays. It's my one day to do whatever I want. I can sleep in and not set my alarm. I don't have to wear nice clothes, or put on make-up, or do my hair. I can just relax. Be lazy. (I obviously don't have kids.) This past Saturday wasn't any different.
I got up late, I showered, I ate something, and then I decided to work on invitations. Not long into that process, I got a phone call from my friends. They were going out, and I was invited! And that's when I start arguing with my introverted self. I know I have friends, I know I haven't hung out with them much, but at the same time, how badly do I actually
want to go out? I could come up with a few very good excuses as to why I wouldn't go with them.
But I told myself that I should just go out. Put that hesitancy aside. It could be fun! Normally, that's the way it turns out. At the beginning of the evening my inner hermit is begging to be hermit-y, and by the end of the evening, I'm glad I went out! But as far as this last Saturday is concerned, my inner hermit was probably right. For once.
Clue #1 That Maybe I Should Have Stayed Home: The phone call came not long before we were meeting together, which means that I had to get out of lazy Saturday mode and actually make myself presentable, and I didn't have a lot of time to do it.
Clue #2: Those invitations really needed to get done, me and my very helpful mom had just got started, and now I was going to leave her to continue on her own. Not very nice of me.
Clue #3: The activity for the evening was dinner and a movie. I was fine with the dinner part. But not the movie part. Now, I like movies. Especially cheap movies. But I absolutely refuse to see
I Am Legend. Go on and tell me how amazing that movie is. I saw the preview, I was scared, and I don't like scary movies. I WILL NOT SEE THAT MOVIE.
Guess which movie they wanted to see. Yup. Since I don't have a car, I was at the mercy of whoever gave me a ride. If everybody was going to see that movie, then I had to as well. (At this point, I was really hoping that at least
one person would agree to see a safer movie with me.)
Clue #4: We couldn't agree which restaurant to go to. These negotiations took a while, and it was a bit of a battle between the really opinionated people, and the really hungry people who didn't care. And there were eleven of us. Finally someone just made a decision, and we were off.
Clue #5: We had a bit of a time figuring out rides, then someone got lost, then we almost didn't get into the restaurant because we didn't make reservations, then we ended up sitting at two tables (which were thankfully side by side).
Clue #6: One of my friends who came along wasn't feeling well. Which isn't a problem, in and of itself. I'm not afraid of germs or anything (Misophobia for those who want to know). But considering the next factor....
Clue #7: Said unwell friend is a bit comparable to
Anne of Green Gables. Yes, she's chatty, but what I really mean is that she doesn't always think before she says or does something. Like, going to a restaurant when you're not feeling well. I don't know about the rest of you, but I'm a bit of a baby when I'm not well. And it just seems like clear logic to me, that if my stomach doesn't feel great, I'm not going to go to a large public place full of food! And even if I did go, I certainly wouldn't order anything to eat. Which she did.
Clue #8: Unwell "Anne" is also a bit of a dare devil, no matter what state of health she's in. Our table ordered a basket of bread, and it came with a mixture of oil and vinegar to dip the bread in. Very delicious. With the bread, that is. I know for a FACT that it does not taste good
all by itself. But, someone decided to dare her to drink the oil and vinegar. Thankfully she turned it down. Then he proceeded to
offer her money to drink it. At this point she briefly considered it, then turned it down. AND THEN he offered her
MORE money to drink it! By this time, I'm practically glaring at him for doing that, and I'm
begging her not take him up on his offer.
I think pulling a Survivor/
Fear Factor food-eating contest at a restaurant is so gross. I think it's gross anyway, but especially at a restaurant. I'm there to enjoy my food, and these sort of antics make that difficult to do. So I keep telling her not to do it, it's
not a good idea, she
will regret this.
But her wheels are turning, cuz she's going to get $10 if she does this. Then she tips the plate toward her lips and I yank up my napkin to cover my face so I don't have to watch. (Did I mention that she was sitting right beside me?)
Clue #9: Survivor/Fear Factor Unwell Anne likes attention. Duh. I mean, why else would she eat gross food? So now that she's done doing that, she has to do something else keep people fixated on her. So not two minutes after she downed the bread dip, she starts complaining that she doesn't feel good. I think I stopped caring right about then.
"Gee, you're not feeling well to begin with, so you decide to go to a restaurant, order food, then eat something gross, and now you're suddenly feeling worse? Are you surprised by this? Because I saw this one coming a light year away." (No, I didn't say this out loud. These were just my thoughts.) Her running commentary on how unsettled her stomach was continued through the rest of the meal.
Clue #10: I started feeling a little unwell myself. I wasn't actually terribly hungry when I got there, so I just ordered the soup and salad. The soup arrived right around the same time as Miss Anne was drinking oil and vinegar, so eating that didn't feel quite as nice as I had hoped. And then my salad. Oh, my salad.
Ya'll, this salad could have fed our whole table. It was HUGE!!!!! I have never seen so much food piled on one plate for one person. I started off not completely hungry, then heard puke stories from Anne Girl (before we even got our food), then witnessed a little Food Fear Factor, then ate soup. So I was not even hungry AT ALL when my monster salad arrived. I was starting to think to myself,
"I'm dishing out money for this experience? Not cool..."
Clue #11: Our movie theater plans were a bust because dinner ended too late. So then it was decided that we should rent a movie instead. Of course, eleven people deciding on a restaurant is one thing. Eleven people deciding to rent a movie? Not happening. Again, someone just ended up picking a movie, and people had to be okay with it. I offered to have everyone over to watch the movie at my place.
Clue #12: Lady Anne experienced a little deja vu. As in, she revisited her food. As in, she threw up. In the parking lot of the restaurant. Four times. (By the way, she didn't even eat ANY of her meal.) I feel bad for whoever parked beside her car. Thankfully, I was in a different vehicle. That was the one part that went right in this whole evening.
Clue #13: We rented the movie (all four of us that were in the same car), came over to my house, and waited for half an hour for six other people who never showed up. They eventually called and said they suddenly didn't feel like watching a movie. I was more than fine with that, as my good attitude had kind of reached its limits. But I feel really bad for the guy who wanted to rent the movie: people ditched on him two weekends in a row. Very uncool.
And finally, Clue #13 That Perhaps I Should Have Stayed Home On Saturday Night: Art and I had a bit of miscommunication, which usually leads to confusion and hurt feelings, which leads to having to make up late at night. We had both been really busy the entire week, so we hadn't had much more than 2-minute conversations here and there.
He didn't call me Saturday afternoon, so I assumed he was at work (which is a reasonable assumption). I emailed him at work to tell him that I was going out for the evening. He called after I left, wanting to talk to me, and he was a bit miffed that I hadn't told him that I was going out, because he
wasn't at work, so he didn't get the email, so I should have called. But I didn't call because I thought he was at work because he didn't tell me he wasn't working, but I emailed him, but he didn't get it.......you get the picture. (And don't worry, we made up, it's all good).
Sometimes, it's good for introverts to go out and be around people. But for once, the recluse in me was right: I really shouldn't have gone out on Saturday. I would have saved myself $27, for starters.
I just
know that if I
hadn't been there, I would have heard about the whole thing on Sunday morning, and I would have thought to myself, "Boy, I'm glad I stayed home!"