This post goes along with the previous cloth diaper post, so if you haven't already, please read Part 1.
In this post, I'm going to address some of the questions and comments I've heard or received in regards to cloth diapering. This is not meant to be a guilt trip on anyone who doesn't use cloth diapers; I'm not trying to start an argument. I'm simply going to tell you how it's been for me.
1. "I could never cloth diaper: it would be too much work!"
My experience: Since I'm assuming that "work" here means "laundry", I'll tell you my laundry routine: One cold rinse, one hot wash with detergent, one cold rinse, once through the dryer. If bleach is used to get rid of stains, add two more rinses. [Btw, I don't bleach that often, maybe every other month, because it's hard on the diapers, and because it's such a long laundry routine.]
I wash the diapers every other day, because I only have 17 diapers in my rotation. I have over 50 diapers in my stash, but only 17 fit Sophia at the moment. As she gets bigger, I'll be able to add 19 more diapers to the rotation, and have fewer laundry days. I'm sure many moms think: "I already do so much laundry, I don't want to have to wash diapers too!" I look at it this way: "What's one more load of laundry every few days?"
I wash the diapers every other day, because I only have 17 diapers in my rotation. I have over 50 diapers in my stash, but only 17 fit Sophia at the moment. As she gets bigger, I'll be able to add 19 more diapers to the rotation, and have fewer laundry days. I'm sure many moms think: "I already do so much laundry, I don't want to have to wash diapers too!" I look at it this way: "What's one more load of laundry every few days?"
Plus: washing diapers isn't a lot of work compared to how many clothes I have to wash due to diaper explosions. You want to talk about a lot of work? Dealing with this, every single day, sometimes several times a day is a lot of work.
This was an all too-common occurrence when Sophia wore disposable diapers. I'd have to wash her clothes, my clothes (because she loves to poop while she's in my lap nursing), any blankets she may have been wrapped in, plus run a bath for her. THAT is work. Work I'm not willing to do. The "work" involved with cloth diapering is so much more rewarding, and therefore, for me, doesn't seem like work.
2. "Cloth diapers are so expensive! I could never pay that much money for just one diaper."
My experience: I've looked at many, many cloth diaper websites, and seen many, many brands and types of diapers out there, at all different prices. Prefolds are the cheapest, at less than $3 per diaper. Goodmama diapers are the most expensive I've ever seen, at $35-40 per diaper! And then there's everything in between. Whatever your budget, I'm sure you can find diapers that will work for you and your baby.
I recently did the math, and found out that I own 51 cloth diapers, and 14 diaper covers. The retail value of my stash is about $465. Of course, I did not buy all my diapers myself. I received a lot of them as gifts. The ones I did buy, I bought over time. A few of them I purchased used. $400 is considered the average cost for an adequate diaper stash. But you could probably do it for half that cost.
Another way I look at is that I may be shelling out $20 or so per diaper, but those diapers will last for several months, or maybe until Sophia is potty trained. And I can use them for more than one baby (if they're still in good condition). Once I'm done having babies, and my babies are potty trained, I could resell some of my diapers for a small profit. Any way you slice it, I am more than getting my money's worth.
3. "I don't want to deal with the poop!"
My experience: Let me show you this picture again.
I think either way, you're going to deal with poop. I don't mind a poopy cloth diaper. But a poop-covered baby? And a poop-covered mommy? And poop-covered blankets? No thank you.
4. "Don't your laundry costs go up?"
My experience: Yes, our laundry costs have gone up. I have two thoughts on this.
a. I feel that having a baby makes your laundry costs go up anyway. Diaper leaks, spit up, drool...all of our clothes have to be washed all the time. Like I mentioned before, what's one more load of laundry every couple of days?
b. The cost of diapers plus the cost of laundry is still less than the cost of disposable diapers. We're still saving at least $1000 per year.
5. "I've heard that cloth diapers are less absorbent than disposable diapers. Won't all that moisture cause more leaks and diaper rashes?"
My experience: Sophia's diapers are not leak-proof. And she does get the occasional rash. If a diaper isn't tucked into a cover properly, or if she's in one for too long, there will be leaks. If she poops during the night and she's in that diaper until morning, she'll get a rash. But it really depends on the materials, and how the diaper is made.
This is yet another reason why I love pocket diapers. They can be stuffed to the max to make sure that nothing leaks out. And many pocket diapers are made so that the moisture wicks right through the pocket and is absorbed by the padding inside, so that the baby doesn't feel as much moisture.
Also, most cloth diapers are made from natural materials that are less likely to irritate the baby's skin. Having plenty of bamboo, hemp, and wool in a cloth diaper stash can go a long way in preventing both leaks and rashes.
Of course, if the diaper doesn't fit Sophia properly, it doesn't matter how absorbent it is, it will leak. But if we get the fit right, well, I've often been surprised just how much that diaper can hold.
Finally, if a rash does occur, I can always turn to Grandma El's diaper cream. It's cloth diaper friendly, and just happens to smell like Redbull! [According to Art and Wayne, who used to drink A LOT of Redbull.]
6. "Cloth diapers look like they'd be bulky."
My experience: Yes, they're bulkier than disposables. But I hardly see that as a problem. Sophia can still wear her clothes and we can still buckle her into her car seat. And I think she looks cute with a padded bum. :)
6. "Cloth diapers look like they'd be bulky."
My experience: Yes, they're bulkier than disposables. But I hardly see that as a problem. Sophia can still wear her clothes and we can still buckle her into her car seat. And I think she looks cute with a padded bum. :)
7. "What about the horrible diaper pail smell?"
My experience: my diaper pail really doesn't smell that bad. Because:
a. Breast milk poop doesn't smell that bad.
b. My diaper pail has a lid on it.
c. I do laundry every other day, so the dirty diapers don't sit in the pail all that long.
d. I have a Kissaluvs antibacterial pail liner, which I toss in with the diapers every other load.
e. If I was worried about odor, I could just add a little bit of Rockin Green pail freshener.
f. When she starts eating solids, I will spray the poop off of the diapers into the toilet before placing said diaper into the pail.
8. "Cloth diapers aren't convenient for travel."
8. "Cloth diapers aren't convenient for travel."
My experience: true. But we don't do a ton of travelling. For most outings, I only have to take one or two diapers with me. And while you might think it gross to carry around a dirty diaper, well, that's what wet bags are for! I just toss the diaper and wipes in the wet bag, zip it shut, and when I get home, both the contents of the bag and the bag itself go into the laundry.
So there you have it. I've been cloth diapering Sophia for almost five months now, and I don't feel like it's been too much work. In fact, I quite enjoy it! I feel that we're doing the best thing for Sophia's health, for the environment, and for our wallet.
Besides, cloth diapers are so much more fun than disposables! How can you possibly resist these?
So there you have it. I've been cloth diapering Sophia for almost five months now, and I don't feel like it's been too much work. In fact, I quite enjoy it! I feel that we're doing the best thing for Sophia's health, for the environment, and for our wallet.
Besides, cloth diapers are so much more fun than disposables! How can you possibly resist these?
Someday I will own all of the above....I LOVE cloth diapers!!!